Updated On: 31 August, 2025 07:27 AM IST | Mumbai | Arpika Bhosale
The recent dowry burning case in Noida has shocked us all, and yet activists and experts say it shouldn’t. It’s not an outdated practice that exists only in rural pockets. In metro cities, consumerism has turned it into an insatiable demon satisfied with nothing less than Mercedes, iPhones, or prime real estate

A protest by the students of Jadavpur University against domestic violence after an incident right outside the campus back in 2017. Pic/Getty Images
It was close to New Year’s back in 2012 in the outskirts of Mumbai. Twenty-two-year-old Bhumi (name changed), just a day shy of completing eight months of her pregnancy, was cooking in the kitchen when she felt something wet coat her back.
“I turned around and my husband was standing over me. Before I could react, he lit a match,” Bhumi recounts over a phone call. As she screamed out in pain, her husband, mother-in-law, and father-in-law allegedly backed away and watched. “I felt like I had been screaming for a long time before the neighbours came in and put out the fire on my body,” she says.
Just a little over a year prior to this, in May 2011, Bhumi’s family had paid for the entire wedding, as well as gifts for both sides of the wedding party, and also rented the bus to ferry family members to and from the venue. The problems began when the groom’s wanted more money.